Frequently Asked Questions

I offer a curated selection of BDSM and Femdom experiences in Berlin and internationally, each designed for those who appreciate sophistication, psychological depth, and genuine power exchange.

If you have a particular desire or scenario in mind that is not listed below, you may include it in your inquiry form for My consideration. Every request must align with My interests, values, and standards of discretion.

Available engagements include:

• Cash meets

• Shopping trips and financial domination

• BDSM & dominance sessions at Studio Lux in Berlin

• Dominance sessions in upscale 4- or 5-star hotels

• Fly-Me-to-You experiences (worldwide)

• Social companionships – opera, theatre, art exhibitions, museums, brunch, fine dining, jazz clubs, fetish events, galas, and luxury shopping trips

• Online domination sessions

• Dinner & Dominance

• Long-term keyholding arrangements

As a queer, mixed-race Black Dominatrix, inclusivity lies at the heart of My Femdom practice. I welcome all who seek authentic connection, regardless of gender, sexuality, race, age (21+), or ability.

Whether you are experienced in BDSM or taking your first step into submission, you’ll find My space grounded in respect, curiosity, and care. Before every session, I hold a detailed pre-session discussion to explore your desires, boundaries, and comfort levels, ensuring that every encounter is crafted with precision and mutual understanding.

I am drawn to respectful, generous, clean, and devoted submissives. Those who value etiquette and emotional intelligence as much as desire. Consent, communication, and care are the cornerstones of My world.

My availability varies according to My schedule and creative projects. Each month, I announce My Studio Days, the days I am present at BDSM Studio Lux Berlin, available for in-person BDSM sessions throughout the day.
On these dates, I accept last-minute appointments, though opportunities are limited.

You can view My current schedule and studio presence directly through the BDSM Studio LUX Berlin website.

Outside of Studio Days, I accept sessions by appointment only, including incalls at Studio Lux and outcalls to upscale 4- or 5-star hotels in Berlin.
For private bookings, I typically require a minimum of 48 hours’ notice to consider your request.

I am highly selective about who earns the privilege of serving Me. As a Berlin-based Dominatrix, I seek more than fleeting encounters, I seek genuine devotion.

If you wish to serve Me, follow these steps carefully:

1. Read My website thoroughly. Everything you need to know about My philosophy, etiquette, and expectations is already written here.

2. Complete the inquiry form. Take your time. A thoughtful introduction speaks volumes about your mindset.

3. Once I’ve reviewed your application, I will respond with a personalized offer, detailing your potential BDSM or Femdom session.

4. A 50% deposit is required to secure your booking. Deposits can be paid via bank transfer or Throne. The remaining balance may be settled in cash on the day of the session or through another arranged method.

Patience and attention to detail are part of your first test. I do not entertain rushed or careless requests.

I am currently based in Berlin, where I hold My private BDSM and Femdom sessions at BDSM Studio Lux. I also tour regularly across Europe, most often to Amsterdam, London and Copenhagen.

To stay informed about My travel schedule, follow Me on social media or join My Telegram channel, where I announce tour dates and availability in advance.

• Preparation begins with respect, for My time, My energy, My body, My mind, and My spirit.

• Always address Me as Goddess or Goddess Nadirah, both in your messages and during the session. Titles matter; they reflect your awareness and your devotion.

• Take time to ground yourself before and after the session. Arrive well-rested, sober, hydrated, and fed.

• Hygiene is non-negotiable.
  A full-body shower, every crevice thoroughly cleansed; fresh breath from proper brushing, flossing, and tongue cleaning; clean, trimmed nails; washed hair; and absolutely no cologne or perfume. Only use an antiperspirant.
  If you have requested anal play, internal cleansing is mandatory.

• While not required, a small offering or gift, something from My wishlist or a thoughtful indulgence — is always noticed and appreciated. It shows genuine appreciation and creates a lasting first impression.

• Approach the experience with an open mind and a willing heart. I have no patience for brats or those who attempt to control the scene (topping from the bottom). True submission means surrender.

• Before contacting Me, read My website thoroughly — especially the sections on limits, etiquette, and kinks.
  If you violate My boundaries at any point during a session, I reserve the right to end the session immediately, without refund or discussion. Respect is non-negotiable.

• Stay connected and follow Me on social media to remain part of My world, and to better understand My work as a Berlin Dominatrix.

If you’ve visited My Admire page, you already know I have impeccable taste, a perfect blend of class, seduction, and elegance. You don’t need to tell Me what to wear; I already know how to captivate you.

Dressing up, experimenting with textures, and creating the perfect look are part of My art. Don’t spoil that creative process with direct demands.

However, I understand the allure of certain materials.
If you have a particular craving, you may politely suggest that I include:

• Leather

• Latex

• Mesh

• Nylon

• Lingerie

• Heels

• Boots

Remember, I decide how to wear them, and when you’ve earned the privilege to see them.

Oh, trying to lure Me away from Berlin, are you? Tempting, but if you wish Me to grace your city with My presence, you’ll have to do more than simply ask.

Read the following instructions carefully. If you’re truly serious about arranging a Fly-Me-to-You session, include all relevant details in the “Additional Meet Information” section of your inquiry form.

Berlin

• Minimum session or social engagement: 1.5 hours

• 50% deposit required to confirm your booking

• You are responsible for all My expenses during our time together

Within Germany (outside Berlin)

• Minimum session or social engagement: 5 hours

• Upfront payment via bank transfer for:

  • My 4-star (or higher) hotel room (minimum 1 night)

  • 1st-class train ticket

  • Any additional local transport (e.g., Uber)

• I handle all bookings Myself

• 50% deposit of the total session fee required

• You cover all My expenses

Europe & UK

• Minimum session or social engagement: 8 hours

• Upfront payment via bank transfer for:

  • My 4-star (or higher) hotel room (minimum 2 nights)

  • Flights and local transport

• I handle all bookings Myself

• 50% deposit of the total session fee required

• Business-class flight required if travel exceeds 3 hours

• You cover all My expenses

International

• Minimum session or social engagement: 24 hours

• Upfront payment via bank transfer for:

  • My 4-star (or higher) hotel room (minimum 4 nights)

  • Flights and all local transport

• I handle all bookings Myself

• 50% deposit of the total session fee required

• Business-class flight required

• You cover all My expenses

When I travel, I travel well.
If you wish to host Me, show Me that your invitation reflects both respect and readiness. I am a professional dominatrix who values generosity, discretion, and luxury.

Deposits are only refundable if a cancellation occurs on My part, due to unforeseen circumstances such as illness or travel disruption.

If you cancel between 48 hours and 14 days before our meeting, your deposit may be credited toward a rescheduled session, within the next two months.

If you cancel less than 48 hours before our scheduled time, your deposit will be retained as a cancellation fee.

For Fly-Me-to-You engagements or multi-day bookings, cancellations made within 7 days of our appointment will also result in your deposit being kept as a cancellation fee.

My time and energy are valuable. Respecting My calendar is part of respecting Me.

Curious, aren’t you? You’ll find the full list of My kinks, preferences, and hard limits on the Kinks & Limits page.

A thoughtful submissive always knows how to please Me. You can discover My preferred gifts, luxuries, and indulgences on the Indulge page.

Read it carefully, you’ll learn exactly how to make an unforgettable first impression.